Pate'Ni 2011

Notes

FATHERHOOD

Inkuan hoihna (quality) tuh Pa tungah kinga hi. Inkuan a Papen in lampi dik atel chiangin inkuan lampi dik ah pai uh a, inkuan lampi dik ah apai chiangin saptuam leh minam lampi dik ah kipai thei pan hi.

Pathian in inkuan sungah Pate Amah sika ding ding (representative) in koih a, Amah leh inkuan kikalah palaina mohpuakna guan hi.  Huaiah Pathianu2019lunggulh masa tuh, Pateu2019n amau inkuanu2019chiat Pathianu2019 itna leh hoihna chiampih ding, taklat ding, ahi. Hiai bang mohpuakna nelhsiahna tuh inkuan (adiak in khalam) puksiatna ahi. Tuabang inkuan ah tateu2019n Pau2019thuneihna zahtaak lou in engtatna toh mumal lou hinkhua zang nuam mahmah uhi. Alehlam ah, khauhtak leh gaktaka kietkolna inkuan ah tateu2019n Pathianu2019itna muh haksa asa mahmah jel uhi.

Cecile Myers said, u201cYour sons need to have respectable and imitable manhood. So do your daughters. Fathers are a criterion against which their daughters judge manhood in the future. Remember that if your daughter selects a wrong spouse, it is because she adopted the wrong type of ideal manhood from you yourself. If a father lives a good and happy life, his daughters will very likely to choose such a man as her father is.u201d

Huaziakin, Pate tuh tateu2019diu2019n a khovel muhna uh totlet bang ahi uh.

Pau2019 hihna (Fatheru2019s Manhood) theihtheihnate (elements)-

1. Kumpipa- amah tuh thuneihna tawi a vaihawmpa leh amiteu2019taksap guantu ahi.
2. Galdoutu- amah tuh kumpi thupiak ahi bangbang a zuia, hangsantaka hinna pephala galte doutu ahi.
3. Sinsaktu- amah tuh thil teng theitu ahi a, amah tuahsa leh sinsate pansan in mite sinsak jel hi.
4. Lawm ginom- amah tuh itna toh hing gige panpihtu nai gige ahi.

Pau2019 hihna suse thei thilte (cultures that destroy Fatherhood)-

1. Tawndan u2013 tradition bik ngaihnat luatna, ahihkeileh, a khengvala paidan ngeina pum let-tangna in Pau2019 hihna melsesak thei hi.
2. Nasepna- workaholic in insung leh saptuam a Pau2019 hihnate melhemsak thei hi. Eg. Erma Bombeck in a Pa sihni in a Pa thupidan leh manphatdan phawk khe pan hi. Amah theihdan in a Pa bel inn a om ngeilou zingkhang a u201cka kuan eiu201d chi a pawtkhia vengveng, nitaka inn hongtung kiknawn lel Pa ahi. A belta-lem kineihna uah a Pa role ding theilou in a Pa a pangpen u201cka kuan eiu201d chisakin lupna nuai ah lawnlut zel hi. A Pau2019n nasep uangbawl lua in insungah hun zang manlou hi. Banah, Billy Graham interview na hun khat uah, u201ckum hiaizah Pathian a din lohchingtakin nakizangta a, hiai hun sungin hihkhial na kisak/bawlthak tuak nasak a om hia?u201d chia a kidotna uah aman, u201cHi, ka nasep a bula panthak thei ding hileng, insungah/inkuante toh hun tamzaw ka zang dinga, a pawlam a nasepna nakpitakin ka tawmsak ding. Birthday leh party tuamtuam a katel nate keiloua leng hi thei lua mahmah ding uh ahiu201d chiu2019n a dawng kichi hi. Nektak zonna nasep nakpitaka a poimoh lai in, Insung leh saptuam a Pa hihna melhemsak ding hial a kizat louh ding ahi. Tua hileh, insung chidam zaw ding hi.
3. Nek-leh-dawn- mihingteu2019 ngeinadan khat tuh eimah hihna tantan hoih-hun sak mahmahna ahi. Tua bang kalah, Pateu2019n i theihdia hoih mahmah bel, nek leh taak, tep leh muam thilchin khenkhat teu2019n Pa i hihna naktakin susia uhi. En hoih hun mahmah i sak laiin Pathianu2019 deihna tung zoulou, hon etton tute a dia siatpih theih ding thilchin i nei hiam chih bang kivel tuak mahmah hi. Zu dawn zeuhzeuh a se pahkei a himahleh chiu2019n a neih ahih chiangin kisiamtan kawmkawm a tun utlouh tan hon tun thei ahihman in, leh hon etton tuteu2019n aleh tampi hoihlou lama hon zui ding uh ahihman in zeuhzeuh louh tuh hoih zaw lai ding hi.Hiai bang thilchin in i gintak sangin Pa'hihna melsesak zaw hi.
4. Sex- women as sex objects- pasal pawl khat-teu2019n numeite tuh sex object bang lel in enkha nak uhi. Papi khenkhat teu2019n amau zite sanga midang, numei dang, a etlah zawk bang uh leng gitlouhna huaisetak ahi. Hiai bang ngaihtuahna leh thilchinteu2019n Pa hihna naktakin sesak uhi.
5. Hiamgamna- verbal violence- Hiamgamna i chih kivuak, chianga kisat kia hilou in kampau uanglua/sanglua leng ahi thei hi. Insungah, saptuam ah, midang lakah i kampau pilvan mahmah ding ahi.
6. Cyber culture- Khovel khantouh dungzuiin vanzat hong kikheng tam mahmah hi. Tuate lakah internet leh phone tungtawna kithuzaktuahna bang ahi. Zongsat theih thil ahihman un, pilvan mahmah ding ahi.

Pau2019 hihna tunding nawn theihnang lampite (ways to recover Fatherhood)-

1. Restoring responsibility- Pateu2019n i mohpuakna chianthak in tuate tungding nawn ni. Eimah mimal hinkhua a i mohpuakna, inkuan a i mohpuakna- alu pen ihihna, saptuam a i mohpuakna, leh khotang a i mohpuaknate chianthak in tungding nawn ni. Zite hiam, ompihte hiam tungah ngamai louin eimah mohpuakna ahi bangbang a sangin semkhe diu2019n panla thak chiat ni.
2. Restoring purity- sianthouna lamah i ki tung ding thak ding uh. Hinkhua a sianthouna (Rom. 12:12,21) leh khalam siangthouna (Jn 17:15-19),
3. Restoring Leadership- makaihna toh kisaiin inkuan ah Pateu2019n ma ikai na u hiam ki enthak ni. Inkuan kikhop bang, insung miteu2019 sep leh bawl ding tungtang ah bang, kivaipuakna leh khat leh khat kisaituahna ah makaihna nna ei khut a om pen ahihna banga sangin tua semkhia diu2019n panlathak ni.
4. Restoring Love (Jn 4:8, Eph. 5:25)- insungah ki-itna in vai a hawm hiam, mimal chihteu2019n christian itna i hinpih hiam chihte vel thak tuak mahmah hi. Itna toh dohzoutaka ki enkol inkuan tuh hong lamzang ding hi.

Pau2019 hihna tunding nangu2019 ah etton ding (model of manhood)

1. Jesuu2019n hahkattakin sem a, zankhua in thum a, pathian toh kizom den uhi.
2. Jesuu2019n khemna leh etkhiakna tuak den hi.
3. Lungkhamtaka a om hun leng pukse ngeilou- Pathian ah kinga gige hi.
4. Khelhna leh diktatlouhna amuh chiangin heh mahmah hi
5. Kingainiamtak leh dohzoutakin sinsak gige hi.

(1 Korinte 16:13-14)- Pateu2019 Ni 2011 i zat toh kiton in tuni a hong paikhawm Pate leh Pa hi thei ding tuailaiteu2019n limtakin ngaihsun thak leu2019ng chi a i deih mahmah tuh hiai ahi- Pathian in Pa hihna hamphatna leh mohpuakna hon pia a, tuate ahihna bangtakin i hinpihin i inkuante chiat tuabang lampi ah i pi na hiam chih ahi. Pilvangtaka thu-up sung ah dingkip a, hattak leh hangsantaka pang a, itna toh i mohpuaknate semkhia thei jel dingin Pathian in Pate tengteng leh a mi siangthoute tengteng hon ompih in hon vualzawl hen aw.